After your first date, you might or might not want a second date with this same person. You might want to, and he might not. Or he might want to, and you are not interested.  But what are the worse type of scenarios???  I've detailed some as follows :


#1 : HE DOESN'T CALL / TEXT AFTER THAT FIRST DATE.
You have a oopsy here. This is the type of situation that drives all women nuts wondering : we both enjoyed our first date, why doesn't he call / text ? If he doesn't call for a few hours, its fine. CALM THE FUCK DOWN!!!!!! Don't act like a deranged maniac just because he is spending a few hours with his parents / studies / friends / colleagues / dog etc etc.  But if he doesn't call / text you in 24 hours after the first date, (unless he works for the CIA / in some secretive job) he is totally not into you. Good time to call NEXT~~~~~




#2 : HE ONLY MEETS YOU AT THE LAST MIN. 
He's either SUPER busy or you are the spare tyre. On his priority list, you are ....... way below the belt! If his favourite sentence is : "Let's play it by ear." , you are simply a convenient bin for him to regurgitate his load on. He doesn't want to make his best effort on you at all. Another NO GO!!!!!







 #3 : HE ONLY CALLS YOU LATE AFTER MIDNIGHT.
He's either married or he is attached. He has to ensure that his wife or girlfriend is away before he can sneakily call you. Let's just be frank, all this guy WANTS IS SEX!!! And don't get me wrong, if that is also what you want, that's great! But if it is TRUE LOVE that you are looking for, please pass this parcel along to the next dumping ground! You have to be absolutely honest with yourself though, are you very very very sure that you as a female is able to separate sex from love? If you can't, just break off all contact this very instant before you hurt yourself further! He might already have a whole list of women whom he calls only LATE at night, you do not want to be one of them! 








#4 : HE LEAVES YOU NO ANSWERS. 
A man is never complex. It's the women who are complex. If a man wants you, he shows up at your door; he calls you without leaving you hanging; he sends you an email; he ensures he is IN YOUR FACE. You will be the 1st to know if he likes you. If he doesn't initate contact with you, he doesn't care that much i.e MOVE ON!!!!

Besides, its not fun hanging out with a guy who's not that interested in you, and views you as a PLAYTHING, an amusing buddy ( what are you? A CLOWN? NO? THEN shut him off!!!!) , a humorous and sexy friend with benefits etc etc. If you are finding TRUE LOVE, you would be better off investing your time , youth and beauty in someone else.





Tell yourself this everyday :
I am going to find True Love. He will come to me one day. Put on those sexy heels and plant a HUGE SMILE on your face, work it girl!!! Nothing shines more than a beautiful personality! Its not only your outside that matters! (Yes yes, disclaimer, your outside MATTERS but its not the ONLY thing that is important. lol.... if you're awesome inside, and thorny outside, you cannot attract the man of your dreams either!)


9 Comments

A S said...

Hi, you mentioned you use fillers in your previous post. May I ask what you use it for and what kind? I'm considering trying Restylane or Juvederm for my cheeks. I'm 27 and my cheeks are starting to get thinner and I'm starting to show nasolabial folds. I don't look a fresh anymore.

Unknown said...

Hi Jacqueline, may I ask what you use fillers for and what kind? I'm 27 and want to get fillers for my cheeks. My cheeks have been losing fat and I'm starting to show nasolabial folds, which makes me look tired. I have heard that Restylane or Juvederm will fill out my cheeks. Do you know anything about that?

Unknown said...

Hi Jacqueline, may I ask what you use fillers for and what kind? I'm 27 and want to get fillers for my cheeks. My cheeks have been losing fat and I'm starting to show nasolabial folds, which makes me look tired. I have heard that Restylane or Juvederm will fill out my cheeks. Do you know anything about that?

Jacqueline said...

Hi babe, I am using juvederm and I go to : TCS CLINIC : cosmeticsurgery.sg/ Dr Chow Yuen Ho for my fillers. =) Stay tuned as I would be blogging and showing a video of my face being filled with fillers. =)

ageless said...

i love reading ur blog! Just found it recently as i was reading on plastic surgery. Anyway besides PS, overall its a good girly read. Pls post more! Thanks.

ageless said...

i love reading ur blog!

Jacqueline said...

thanks ageless. =))))

joseph henry said...

I'm considering trying Restylane or Juvederm for my cheeks. I'm 27 and my cheeks are starting to get thinner and I'm starting to show nasolabial folds. I don't look a fresh anymore.

Is he into me?

Jacqueline Angelicious said...

Joseph Henry :

I am using Juvederm on my nasal folds =)

I prefer Juvederm but it is a personal choice. Both are similar. =)